Amma and instructions go hand in hand. She knows everything and there for must instruct everyone how anything ought to be done..
There was a small water leak on the bedroom carpey and I had the plumber coming in to check the shower for any leakage.. He opened up the taps and was checking the water pressure. My mother felt she needed to instruct a qualified plumber how to do his job. She was sure he was doing it all wrong!!
All i did was to tell her to just let the plumber do his job. She didn’t like it.