I was woken up this morning at 5 a.m. by Yaya, who told me ” Mom, I am hungry, can you please make me the crispy noodles (kon lau mein)”
She came home two days ago and is suffering from severe jet lag. What shocked me the most was when I went to pick her up from the airport, the moment she saw me outside the arrival hall, she started to cry. She then hugged me and told me how much she missed me. I had already made her favourite fish cutlet and took it with me to the airport.. which made her cry again. She missed home cooked food as well. She missed the beautiful blue skies, scraggy(her words) gum trees, dried grass (summer sun) in our lawn, the birds, the quietness outside my house.. In other words, she was really homesick.
10 minutes after I arrived back home from the airport with Yaya, her friends started to drop in. I was hoping to spend some time alone with my child.. instead, I cooked biriyani for everyone. (I learned long ago, if you can’t beat them, might as well join them)
My son arrived yesterday evening from Peru. I dropped a handsome bloke at the airport 6 weeks ago and picked up a sunburnt, scrawny bloke wearing gypsy Peruvian pants, 6 bracelets on the left hand and 4 on the right, silver pinky rings and two chains with unknown charms around the neck. I was a bit shocked to see the transformation.. He looked very happy. Both his sisters came with me to the airport to pick him up. He bought handmade chocolates from Santiago for his sisters and they ate it in the car on the drive back home.
Right now as I type this post, both the girls are singing Mariah Carey’s All I want for Christmas out of tuneΒ while rolling the cookie dough. My dog is looking at them bewildered. My son is trying to distract the girls to steal the cookies.
I was once told by a very dear friend that with age comes confidence and happiness. I don’t know if I can attribute my current state of happiness to my age. Clearly I am happy and contended. I am also getting old π
I’m so happy for you sis,you have wonderful children and you doing great job as a mother.Merry Christmas Yaya,Toothless n Baby.You never looked old mate!??
Sharnaz: Hope you are feeling better. Know that you are never alone. Happy new year
Sarah- who cares about age.. This moment is perfect in itself. Enjoy!!
This moment has been in the making from the time they were born. You worked for it. All your to smile and be contended..
MS: π
By the way..one more thing to make you happy..It is the 25th anniversary of the release of the movie “Kilukkam”..lol..Have you seen it?
Karthik: I left Kerala in 1988. I have hardly watched Mallu movies since them. After seeing your comment, I did find the movie and watched in on YouTube. It was a hilarious movie.. loved it
Glad to see you capping off an eventful year being happy and content, surrounded by your children…. Merry Christmas!!!
SS: Thank you. Happy New year
You are at a happy Place π enjoy!
Goutham: Indeed I am.. π
Your post made me happy too….
Anju: π
Well,
It shows you have done well as a mom because you raised confident, independent and well adjusted kids π
J1206: Thank you