I am so lucky

My sister’s latest email to me

“Infact you’re the one with the problem. Do you think i need your permission to call your children… I dont!

DO you understand the meaning of the word decency. If If you were decent you wouldn’t behave the way you do. I am not going into details. Unlike your sad/miserable/pathetic life…i have a life that is meaningful and I dont have time for people like you.

Honestly sis you need to reevaluate your life. You’ve been living this life of blaming the family for your miseries/ you’ve been using your children against us… i even remember how you used to tell them that they have no family and if you die that they shud contact our aunt in Sabah. By the way i hope you’re in good terms with them..coz u need them to take care of your children.
Are you mentally sound?

At the moment you’re a utter failure in life. You need to get out and earn a living. Interact with others which will improve your social skills.

7 thoughts on “I am so lucky

  1. OMG! I am sorry but she is a monster, more like poison. I don't know how to deal with her but I would say stay away from her. She sounds like she would bring nothing but misery and sadness to your life.

  2. Ok..even if Im willing to give them benefit of doubt–thats not an email I would think even an enemy would send.
    That drips of hate and poison. Al I can give you is hugs…and tell u..even if ur real sisters dont act as ones…u have friends who are wiling to be ur sisters..
    Just take care of urselves and the kids ok..
    And what you do with your life is none of their business.Follow ur dreams and do what you like doing the best.

  3. funny! I came here to check why this person is so lucky. I think I ended up in the wrong place because content has nothing to do with the title.

    Anyway, your blog is kind of like a gossip magazine; providing entertainment for others but at your cost. What i don't understand here is the above 2 comments, how can they pass judgment on a person after hearing only one side of a story. I am sure the email sender will have her own version of ththis story. And you are publishing an email meant for private viewing to the whole world. That does not fit the descriptors of a nice person. If anything, you are a sympathy seeker. I hope your kids won't get your the-whole-world-against-me mentality, for their sake at least.

    And Jina, thank your lucky stars – you never had a true enemy all your life.

  4. Abhilah: The title was “Satire”

    Writing gives words to my feelings..And I write be it political, personal or whatever.

    There is a sense of liberation when words flow out of my finger tips as I type..It feels as though words come alive with my feelings.

    When one is in the throes of desperation..they cope differently.. Mine is my blog..

    The contents of my blog may be
    gossip, truth,satire or whatever it may be..I do have the privillege and the right to do what I chose to do..
    I write because I want to. I do not get any benefit from anyone feeling sorry for me..We are all faceless people in this blogosphere.. However there is an offchance that I can be of some comfort to those who suffer silently in the hands of their own family thinking that they are alone..
    I know I am not alone.. While most suffer silently because one must not wash their dirty linen in public! becauswe there are always people to cast the first stone!

    You always have the option not to read if what I write offends you in any way.
    Each to his own, mate!

  5. Abhilash, you are no better than the person who wrote the poison email. If you don't have anything nice to say why dont you just shut up! Your comment just adds insult to injury.

  6. Huggs, The e-mail was quite bad, looks like your sister was in realy bad mood. You dont have to take anyone telling you that you are a failure — no one does tht kind of thng — you know you arent and that is all that matters.
    @ Abilash — i dont think this is 'the-whole-world-against-me' mentality' there are many people out there who feel this way, some talk about it to their friends, some bottle their feelings up, and some others like Sarah blog about it — some times we all feel te world is against us — tht doesnt mean it is like that at all times.
    Sarah doesnt come across as 'the-whole-world-against-me' person at all– she is defnitely some one who knows to be happy!
    Im sure no one made you read this at gunpoint — you couldve always clicked the 'x' on the top corner of the page if you dint want to read the post instead of spending time criticising ppl.

  7. I don't understand .. Doesn't family is supposed to be “supportive” and “understanding” and “accept” you for who you are.. I have been through a lot in my personal life but definitely not close to what you are going thru .. in a way I am thankful that god has given me enough and more opportunities to understand that life is not always fair.. I have seen people who always talks very high about their family and their fairy tale life. I guess it is easy to judge and criticize when you have never been on the other side of the fence .. Ignore such people Sarah .. Keep your chin up .. Cheer up gal ..

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